Christian dating tips for girls
) Or, on self-esteem: Sometimes everyone hates the girl in the mirror, but you should accept her because that’s just how God made you. “Viewing pornography gives them a distorted view of women that leads them down the path of immorality and guilt.” Hate to be the one to tarnish your purity rings, girls, but according to the Covenant Eyes 2014 Pornography Statistics Annual Report, 50 percent of all Christian men and 20 percent of all Christian women say they are addicted to pornography. There are 20 Duggar kids, so stats say at least two are addicted to porn. “If [physical intimacy]* is done prematurely or with multiple partners, the very thing that was created to bring joy can bring sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV, herpes and human papillomavirus (HPV), which can cause infertility, cervical cancer and a life sentence of pain and suffering.” Wait. Sex before marriage does not automatically give you HPV, Duggars. When these feelings arise, we thank God for making us ‘normal.'” Nope.
Third, once you decide that you are ready to date, look to God's Word to decide the kind of person to date, and evaluate potential dating partners on those criteria, rather than relying primarily on the world's treatment of ideas like "attraction" and "chemistry." I wrote at some length on this in my article, "Brother, You're Like a Six." For you busy singles with time for only one mildly irritating column per day, the summary is this: Pick a potential dating partner with an eye toward godly manhood and womanhood — with an eye toward who would make a good husband or wife, defined by those characteristics esteems in His Word, not the ones Hollywood likes.
A man, often takes pride in doing things all by himself and doesn't always see we were meant to work together!
A man is motivated when he feels trusted and respected. He'll give his best performance in all areas of life when he feels loved!
When a man feels trusted he'll be strong, hard working and outshine all your expectations - a blessing to you and the people around him.
Here's a rough guide to help you understand your differences! For better or worse, men generally value power, competency, efficiency and achievement. These things only become a problem when they are done out of wrong motives and take the place of God.
As a woman, the greatest thing outside salvation in Christ you could have is a husband that respects and cares for you.